Wednesday, 24 December 2008

Merry Christmas!





Last Christmas Grant and I were in Mexico and a mariachi band was serenading us with Feliz Navidad.  This morning Grant, Sofia, and I listened to Feliz Navidad by Dora and Boots.  Although being in Mexico last Christmas was amazing watching my little girl shake her booty while Dora sang wins in my books.  The white dress that she is wearing is the dress that Grant and I bought for her on Christmas Day last year.  We went to the market for the purpose of buying something for our daughter, her very first present from her Mumma and Papa.  

Monday, 22 December 2008

Sunday, 21 December 2008

A good nights sleep

Last night was Sofias first night in her big girl bed.  She made it all the way through the night!  I'm not quite sure how she didn't fall out.  
It is so nice to be woken up with a "hi-no" Sofias version of "hello" instead of crying.  I think that Sofia had issues with her crib and she would start crying as soon as she would wake up.  She was starting to just call out to us but more times than not it was crying.  That's not a good way for anybody to wake up.  I'm SO relieved that she is having happier wake ups in her bed.  We'll see how tonight goes.

Thanks for the new doll Nikki.  I thought a new doll was a good way to celebrate the first night in her bed so I gave it to her a bit early.  I knew you wouldn't mind.

Referral-versary & Winter Solstice

One year ago today at 1615 PT we got the news that a Miss Sofia was waiting for us in Ethiopia.  This was the first image that we saw of our Nigist.
Fast forward 12 months, a court date, some immigration documents, and a trip half way around the world and this is a picture of our Nigist today.  I am more in love with her than I could've imagined possible last year.  Every day I am happy and thankful to be her mother.  


Grant, a couple kids, and a couple dogs mid snowball fight

Our street came out to play today, there was 4 kids, 5 dogs, and 13 grown ups.  We helped each other shovel, threw snowballs, built snowmen, pulled the littlest kids on the sled up and down the road, and went tobogganing on the little hill at the end of the road.  It was a lot of fun and everyone had a great time.  Sofia was yelling "wwwweeeee" and "woo hoo" as she was being pulled back and forth on her sled.  I love the street and our neighbours, it was such a great way to celebrate the first day of winter.
Sofia and Morgan

The airport

On Tuesday Sofia and I went to get my parents at the airport.  A neighbour had given Sofia a special Christmas outfit and I thought this was the perfect time for her to wear it. 
Sofia and Twinkle waiting for Grandma and Grandpops plane to land

YEAH, they're here!

It took Sofia a day or two to warm up to them again but we're all having fun now!  She was a big hit in the airport and many people stopped to comment on her pretty outfit.

Egg Nog

Who knew that egg nog made such a good moustache. 

A whole bunch o'silly

During lunch the other day Sofia was being a ham.  The shutter speed on my camera is usually too slow to catch the 'many faces of Sofia' but with her being extra silly I was able to capture a few pictures.
Then Sofia decided that she was going to eat Qimiks food.  I guess her lunch wasn't enough!  Lucky for me this girl knows how to 'make believe' and she was only pretending to eat the dogs food. 



A weekend of firsts

So I'm way behind with my posting.  My parents came last Tuesday and we've been busy shopping and playing in the snow!  
Sofias first nap in her big girl bed
First time seeing snow
First sled ride
Sofia LOVES snow!  She has been tobogganing every day this week.  She's a champ too, when she falls off (read face plant) she stays still and waits for you to pick her up then with a great big smile she says "Again!"  

The snow started last Saturday night and there is no sign of grass in sight!  I've been racking my brain and the longest I've seen snow here is 4 days.  We must be setting some sort of record. There is no doubt now that we will have a white Christmas!  

Sunday, 14 December 2008

IT SNOWED!

Last night was incredible.  Snow makes me feel like a little kid waiting for Santa!  every 10 minutes I looked outside and got more and more giddy.  It started snowing last evening at about 4 and is still snowing at 7am!  I get to teach my baby girl about SNOW! and we didn't even have to drive 3 hours to find it!  YEAH.  All the 'street parents' and I were having a party last night, and all night we were giggling with anticipation of bundling up with our kids and playing in the snow.  Oh my GOSH!  I'm having trouble restraining myself until daylight to take her outside!!!  

I can hear all you cynics (Danielle) saying "What is she nuts".  NO I'm a transplant.  I grew up in Ontario and spent hours and days rolling in the white stuff.  My parents used to build an skating rink in our backyard every year.  I LOVE WINTER!  If I ever left Victoria it would be to live somewhere there is real winter.  So when winter comes to Victoria for the brief period it does you must celebrate and rejoice because it's fleeting.  And yes, I would be this excited about the first snow of the year even if I lived in Northern Alberta.

I'm off to the storage space to dig out the snow pants and snow boots!  YAHOO Today is a good day!

0945: So I just spent 45 minutes shoveling our driveway while Grant pulled Sofia on her sled up and down the street with Qimik chasing them.  I finished shoveling the drive and then had to do it again cause the snow is coming so fast.  I know this sounds odd for your easterners but it's very exciting here.  Snow is usually a centimeter or two and only lasts until the sun comes up.  This snow is going to be here for days!  Yes even after shoveling for 45 mins I'm still excited and I still love it!  I've got chills just thinking how pretty all the Christmas lights are going to look tonight.  

Friday, 12 December 2008

My Martha Moment

This morning after watching Sofia cover and uncover her baby doll with a tea towel about a hundred times I thought "I wish she had a cradle so she could rock her baby.  I bet she'd like that".  Well 10 minutes and an empty mandarin box later and she did!  It's not the most esthetically pleasing baby cradle I've ever seen but it rocks and that's what's important.  I'm thinking of covering the outside with paper when I have a spare minute (maybe mid-January!)
Tidoo having a nap. 
While Sofia was napping I busted out the sewing machine and made a mattress, pillow, and blanket for the cradle.  I think that I had more fun playing with it today than she did!  And if that's the case I feel ever better that it cost nothing!

On another note my work is already interfering with my Mummy Duties.  I just signed Sofia up for her first set of swimming lessons and I'm work on the first day!  Sad Mumma but luckily her Papa can step in for me.  Since I have to work one weekend a month I'll miss a few of them.  Grant and I decided before we had kids that I would take them to swimming lessons and he would take them to gymnastics.  Drat hospital work.  

I might have mentioned before that I'm having nightmares about returning to work.  Just simple things like not remembering how to do my job, or xraying the wrong body part, or the wrong person, or crashing the computer system do to my incompetence.  The hospital I work at is a small country one so a lot of my shifts I'm alone.  Not a good time to not remember how to do your job!  I don't get any refresher days so I'm planning on spending any downtime relearning the computer system.  I know that I'll be alright and I'm hoping it's like riding a bike.  I've been doing my job for almost 10 years so I'm sure I'll fall right back into it.  I'm hoping I'll be so focused on remembering that I won't miss Sofia too much!


Thursday, 11 December 2008

19 months old

Is it possible to watch your child grow?  Because I'm pretty sure that Sofia is taller today than she was yesterday!  Her nap yesterday was 3 hours and last night she slept 13!  If that doesn't say growth spurt than I don't know what does.  Just for the record on December 5 Sofia weighed 27lbs and was 31" tall.  I'll measure her again once she's back to her usual sleeping patterns.

Sofia is big time into books right now.  We sat and read books for 40 minutes the other day.  One after another.  Every once and a while she'd jump down to go get more.  I can't believe her attention span.  Are we raising an academic?  I hope that she always holds a fascination for books.  That's one thing I miss is reading.  I used to read books all the time, now I tend to read blogs or watch tv.  I think I'll go to the library and get some books on tape for my commute.  That's something to look forward to for my back to work. 

Sofia is also big into her stuffies and dolls.  She likes to play 'mommy' to them.  She calls them "bay-bee" and rocks them in her arms.  She looks at them lovingly and covers them with blankets.  Her favourite outside activity is pushing them in her doll stroller.  And yes, she reads to them too.  

Sofia is also becoming a great helper around the house.  She likes to help unload the dishwasher and it's become her job to put away all the plastics and pots/pans.  She has started helping me do laundry too.  She puts the clothes in the washer and dryer and presses the buttons to start it.  I think this is going to have to stop though because she turned on the dryer yesterday while I was in the shower and she has figured out how to disable the child lock (even though it might have been a fluke).  Sofia also likes to help sweep and vacuum.  

I am constantly amazed that the little baby that barely crawled when we met her 7 months ago is the amazing little girl we have now.  Watching her grow and change has been an immensely rewarding experience.   She is a great balance between outgoing and cautious.  I love watching her teach herself new things.  She is very cautious when it comes to climbing and heights but is outgoing enough to try.  Once she realizes that she's safe, the joy that comes over her face is overwhelming to see!

Looking back on the past 7 months there are somethings I would do differently and somethings I would have had more patience with.  For the most part I think that all of us did a pretty good job though.  There is no handbook for bringing home children, although there are a lot of recommended readings!  I found so many of them had conflicting points of view and I went with my gut most of the time.  I always wanted to be a mother my whole entire life.  Now I can very proudly say that I am one.  I felt like a poser for the first few months, like a mother impersonator.  In many ways I was.  Now I'm the real deal.  I've also learned a lot and grown as a person.  I know my limitations and how to work with them.  I've learned that I have maternal instinct and that the expression "a mother knows" is true.  I will enjoy every day with my daughter good and bad.  She is a blessing and I realize it.  My sights are set on baby 2 though.  Baby fever has struck again.  It was a 4 year journey to Sofia, lets hope it doesn't take that long again! 

Monday, 8 December 2008

What Daddies do...

They drink cocoa
They read books
They paint
They hike

Lucky girl Sofia is about to have her Daddy home with her for 2 months.  Grant is taking the last of the parental leave.  They are going to have so much fun!  The happy part for me is that I only work part time and so I'll get to share in some of their fun.

3 weeks today I'll be at work, trying to remember every thing I knew in my previous life.  

Child Locks

6 months 23 days - That's how long the child locks on my washer and dryer worked at keeping my child locked out.  Darn kid's too smart!  Let's hope the ones on the kitchen cupboards last a lot longer!

Friday, 5 December 2008

Humbled

Yesterday was a rough day.  Sofia is teething and her teeth seem to bother her the most at night.  We both lost a lot of sleep but got up at the regular time.  My temper gets short when I'm tired and Sofia get hyper when she's tired... Not a healthy combination.  

When Sofia woke up from her nap I filled her full of lunch and packed her into the stroller for a long dog walk.  Qimik has been sick or sickish for the last week and I've been watching him closely.  Sofia now likes to walk for a portion of our time out so when we got to the park I let her out of the stroller.  She's learning how to stay on the path/trail and she's doing very well.  Qimik walked into the middle of the green space to do his business so I had to follow him.  I got involved in following Qimik from spot to spot but I knew that Sofia was following behind me.  By the time I could turn my attention back to her I saw something that taught me a lesson and put me in my place. 

Sofia had gone into the basket underneath the stroller and gotten a Kleenex out.  She had walked onto the grass to follow me.  Then she bent down and using the Kleenex scooped up some invisible something.  Exactly what I had just done 5 times.  

I'm crying as I type this because she fills my heart.  What a lesson!  What a girl!  Unconditional love is amazing!  I need to remember this for a long time.  They may be little, they may not have many words to communicate with you, they may not always listen to you but they are always watching you.  

Wednesday, 3 December 2008

Our first conversation?

Today when Sofia and I were shopping... 

Sofia: "Cli Cli"  (what she calls Qimik)
Me: "Oh, do you see a dog Sofia?"
Sofia: "No dog Mumma"


Her first three words were "good dog Qimik" but that's always with prompting.  In the last 2 weeks she's been putting together 2 words on her own.  Cold hands.  No Dada.  Hi Mumma.  But this was the first time she has strung together 3 words to get a point across.  

Cooking

So I've been trying my hand a cooking some Ethiopian food lately.  
This is the super yummy Chickpea Wat that I made last week.  It's super easy to make and really yummy to eat.  Injera is hard for us to get (as in an hour + round trip) and so I served it over rice which worked well.  This dish will be on our Christmas menu this year. 

The other dishes I've made are Atakilt Wat and Shiro.  I will be making the cabbage dish for Christmas dinner with Grants family.  With the shiro leftovers I took a bit of artist license and smothered some chicken breasts in it and baked them in the oven... YUM!  

The links I included are from 3 different sources and I encourage you to explore all of them.  There are some great recipes out there just waiting to be found!  I plan on trying some more from recipezaars Ethiopian section.  The wat recipe was really easy to follow and turned out really well with no tweaking.  (Although I will add a bit less cayenne pepper next time cause it was a bit spicy for us) 

Monday, 1 December 2008

Hair


I've been having fun with Sofias hair the last 3 days and she's been doing a great job of sitting still.  I was able to give her 2 braids and 2 pony-puffs on Saturday, on Sunday I was able to get 4 braids done, and today she has pigtail-puffs with red & green ballies.  I'm getting faster and her attention span is getting a bit longer.  After a lot of frustration I'm feeling optimistic!

December 1st!


BRING ON THE FESTIVITIES!!!  I'm ready!  This year December is all about count downs.  Count down to my parents coming, count down to my brother coming, count down to Christmas (all 2 days of it!), and count down to me going back to work.  Our calendar is filling up fast.  The social butterfly in me LOVES December!  Tonight Grant has promised me the lights will go up outside.  The tree will come when my parents get here.  I'm so excited today, I love December 1st.  I've got the Christmas tunes cranked and I'm baking cookies!